Moving on...

There's a fine fine line between what you thought you knew, what you thought you believed and what is reality.

For some people, finding the reality is mind blowing and crushing, completely decimating what they believed in, including themselves.

And for others, they see it as a learning experience where they might have been made a fool of, but it's something that they can't take back, so there's no need to dwell on it. Because they see it for what it really is, and that is that they were part of a pattern that will not change for a great while. It teaches them that there are things that they need to watch out for, and being coerced is not a way of life, no matter how badly you want to believe it.

So they take it, smile, wish the pattern-maker good luck and all the happiness in the world and move on, because there's nothign left to do, and so much more important things in life.